Let’s Talk About This Fitness Obsession
Okay, look. I’ve been in this industry for over two decades. I’ve seen trends come and go. And honestly? Most of ’em are trash. But this one? This obsession with perfect workouts, counting every damn calorie, tracking every step? It’s gotten out of hand.
I was there too, though. Back in 2018, I met this trainer, let’s call him Marcus, at a conference in Austin. He had me doing HIIT at 6am, fasting till noon, counting macros like my life depended on it. And you know what? I was exhausted. My hair was falling out. I was cranky. My husband, Dave, kept saying, “Hon, you’re not fun anymore.” (Which… yeah. Fair enough.)
So last Tuesday, I had coffee with an old colleague named Sarah. She’s a nutritionist, been in the game longer than me. I asked her, “Sarah, is this normal? Am I just weak?” She laughed. Not in a mean way. More like a “Oh, honey, no” way.
“You’re not weak,” she said. “You’re human. And humans need balance. Not this… this robotic approach to fitness.”
And that’s when it hit me. I’d been chasing some ideal, some perfect number on the scale or the tracker. But at what cost?
My Body, My Rules
So I quit. Cold turkey. No more counting. No more obsessive tracking. And you know what happened? I started enjoying food again. I started enjoying life. I started enjoying my workouts.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying throw all the science out the window. There’s value in understanding your body, its needs, its limits. But there’s a difference between understanding and obsessing.
I remember this one time, about three months ago, I was at the gym. This trainer comes up to me, all enthusiastic. “You’re not working hard enough!” he says. I looked at him, mid-squat, and said, “Buddy, I’ve been at this for 36 hours this week. I think I know my limits.”
And honestly? He didn’t know what to say. Because in this world of “no pain, no gain,” it’s radical to suggest that maybe, just maybe, listening to your body is a good idea.
Now, I’m not saying don’t push yourself. But there’s a difference between pushing and punishing. And too many of us are in punishment mode.
What’s the Alternative?
So what’s the alternative? It’s simple, really. Eat food. Move your body. Enjoy it. Repeat.
I know, I know. It’s not sexy. It’s not a quick fix. But it’s sustainable. And frankly, that’s what matters.
And listen, I’m not saying it’s easy. It’s not. It takes practice. It takes patience. It takes a lot of unlearning. But it’s worth it.
I’ve been reading this book lately, “The Joy of Movement” by Kelly McGonigal. She talks about how movement is a celebration of what your body can do, not a punishment for what you ate. And I mean, that’s just… refreshing, you know?
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But back to my point. The point is, it’s okay to take up space. It’s okay to enjoy your workouts. It’s okay to eat the damn cookie. It’s okay to rest. It’s okay to not be perfect.
Because here’s the thing: perfection is boring. Perfection is unsustainable. Perfection is, frankly, overrated.
So let’s talk about something else. Let’s talk about progress. Let’s talk about joy. Let’s talk about balance. Let’s talk about real life.
And hey, if you’re reading this and thinking, “Yeah, but…”, I get it. It’s a process. It’s a journey. It’s not always easy. But it’s worth it. Trust me.
So here’s to listening to our bodies. Here’s to enjoying our workouts. Here’s to eating the cookie. Here’s to being human.
Cheers to that.
About the Author
Hi, I’m Linda Thompson. I’ve been in the health and wellness industry for over 20 years. I’ve seen it all, done it all, and honestly? I’m still figuring it out. I believe in science, but I also believe in common sense. I believe in hard work, but I also believe in rest. I believe in balance. And I believe in enjoying the journey.
When I’m not writing, you can find me hiking with my dogs, cooking up a storm, or reading a good book. I live in Portland with my husband, Dave, and our two rescue mutts. I love connecting with readers, so feel free to reach out at linda.thompson@healthnewsx.com.
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